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Checklist of Early Child Development
Knowing when your child is most ready to learn key skills can help you play an important role in her development.
by: Nancy Ripton
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Tracking Milestones
- Developmental milestones are averages and should be used as a general guide.
- "Windows of opportunity" are periods of time when your child is most primed for learning.
- The first two years of your child's life are crucial for all levels of her development.
- The window of opportunity for reading skills is 0-48 months, which is why it's important to read to your baby right from the start.
- Taking advantage of windows of opportunity will help your child reach important developmental milestones and lay the foundation for future learning.
hile it's fun to track your child's milestones (see first-year milestone guidelines at end of article), you shouldn't obsess if she is a week or two late in getting to one. "Milestones are averages and should be used as a general guide," says Pam Schiller, an early childhood consultant. Milestones are there to raise awareness about your baby's development. Even more important than milestones are "windows of opportunity," which are the periods of time when your child is most ready to acquire certain skills.
Windows of Opportunity
"These ‘windows' are neurological wiring timetables," says Schiller. Windows of opportunity for learning open even before you see any signs of your child reaching a developmental milestone, so it's important to know when they occur because that is when your child is most primed for learning.
The first few years of your child's life are crucial when it comes to her emotional, social and intellectual development. "As a parent, you're laying the foundation for a lifetime of learning," says Schiller. "Wiring outside a window will not result in the optimum results that wiring within the windows will promote," she says.
For example, your child is primed to learn reading skills and vocabulary from birth, so if you wait until she is able to talk to start a relationship with books, you've missed much of the ideal time to create a strong foundation in reading and learning. Here are some other key windows of opportunity you can use to help your child reach her full potential:
Window | Wiring Opportunity |
What to try in the first few months. |
Emotional Intelligence Trust Impulse Control Social Development Attachment Independence Cooperation |
0-48 months 0-14 months 16-48 months 0-48 months 0-12 months 18-36 months 24-48 months |
Don’t let your baby “cry it out.” Meeting your baby’s needs is the best way to establish early trust. |
Thinking Skills Cause and Effect Problem Solving |
0-48 months 0-16 months 16-48 months |
Make a game out of turning the light switch on and off to show cause and effect. |
Motor Development Vision |
0-24 months 0-24 months |
Scatter toys on a mat to encourage your baby to reach and grab for them. |
Reading Skills* Early Sounds Vocabulary |
0-24 months 4-8 months 0-24 months |
Board books are ideal for the first year. |
*The two most reliable predictors of reading success are sound discrimination and the size of the child's vocabulary.