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Sex After Baby
Take time to reconnect
A word about daddys: often it is the man who is reluctant to make love after the birth of his child. He may be worried about hurting you. He may also be struggling with his new identity – as a father, he may feel an increased sense of responsibility and may be experiencing some doubts as to whether he can provide adequately.
In other words, he craves reassurance, love, and connection right now as much as you do. So, no matter how tired you are, take time to rekindle your relationship. All too often, new parents become so overwhelmed by their new joys and challenges that they stop relating to each other as a couple in love. But fear not – the very fact that you care about your sexual life and want to resume lovemaking is a sign that you value your partner for more than his ability to change a diaper.
Meet our expert:
Dr. Cheryl Fraser is a Registered Clinical Psychologist with a PhD in psychology from Simon Fraser University and post doctorate training at the University of California, San Francisco Medical School. She currently has a busy private psychotherapy practice where she specializes in sex therapy, relationship therapy, and Buddhist psychology with both individuals and couples. becomepassion.com
